Finding someone I messeged with

Hi, I have a couple of suggestions to help you find their username again.

If the wanderers coats that you sold were from horses you bred then you can look through your breeder's production to see if any of the current owners' usernames jog your memory.

And if you sold the horse recently (within 30 days I think until the pass history resets) for passes then you might be able to see who the current owner is that way by clicking on the horse in your history.

Though I would still bear in mind that the current owner isn't necessarily the person you want to speak to. So I would also recommend you check the sales history on the horse's page in case that also helps to jog your memory.

Good luck, it's really annoying when messages get deleted.

Unless you can remember their name, or they contact you - nope, sadly not.
You could advertise on your profile page or EC forum, but nothing else you can do

I tried your suggestion and managed to find the player, i will make note of there name for future thanks